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I think a lot of the discourse on here, esp about intra-community issues, comes from the perspective of people who are a part of pretty insular leftist queer communities and assume everyone else engaging w their writing is too. so you have stuff like “white trans people are celebrated when they come out” or “everyone wants to fuck transmasc genderqueer people” as statements people are making, which are very very true in some cases from within these really insular communities but seem like you’re blogging from another dimension to people who like, live in small town Iowa.

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I think this is why we get a lot of the tumblr arguments we get. like one person’s like “ask every single person you meet for pronouns no exceptions or you’re a bad person” and someone reading that who isn’t part of an urban leftist queer scene is like??? you want me to as the aggressively homophobic straight men who live in my open carry state for their pronouns?????? but no one wants to add “disclaimer: I go to smith college/live in Montreal/have completely forgotten what fear feels like” to their posts

YEAH @ppl I know who grew up with endless parental support in liberal communities who criticize their unfathomably accepting neighborhoods for not being radical enough when I grew up in a corn field afraid to hold my girlfriends hand and ppl gossiping about if I was a (slur 4 intersex) and my boyfriend grew up in the woods getting called d*ke in the hallways and getting shoved around people who don't know what the relief of seeing a human rights campaign sticker on a car feels like u don't care about their specific politics when you grow up with it as a signifier for someone who *probably* won't beat you up my best friend in high school was forced to go to conversion therapy I punched a girl in fifth grade because she was teasing me about wrestling with a friend (we were 10 apparently we were making out and that made us lesbians and therefor worthy of derision) idk dude sorry to go on a rant but this kind of blindness to the world rubs me the wrong fuckkin way you can't just will the world to change by scolding it and acting surprised when it doesn't magically form around ur politics transness queer

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